Is there a smoker in your life who you hope will quit? Keep in mind that you cannot make someone quit. A smoker will only quit when he or she is ready. The best thing you can do is offer support.
Do’s and Don’ts1
- Do make your home smoke-free. Only allow people to smoke outside. With rules, smoking will take more effort, so the smokers in your life may think about quitting.
- Do spend time together. Take a walk or watch a movie. This can help keep their mind off smoking.
- Do praise them. When they have quit for one week, one month, or more, plan something fun.
- Do stay positive, even if they slip or relapse. Smoking is a hard habit to break.
- Don’t nag, judge, or say things like, “You better quit or else!” Has nagging ever made you want to do anything? Instead, tell them you are here if they need help.
- Don’t think their mood swings are about you. Withdrawal symptoms are common and will go away.
- Don’t doubt that they can quit. Believe in them. This can make them want to become a nonsmoker.
- Don’t give advice unless they ask for it. Instead, ask them how you can help.
- Don’t give up. It may take many times before they quit for good.
Key Points
- Relapse is common. For most people, it takes several tries.
- The first two weeks are often the hardest.
- The 3 most common reasons for relapse are:
- Stress
- Being around smokers
- Alcohol
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Health Benefits of Quitting Smoking
Within Three Days…
Within 20 minutes:2
- Heart rate and blood pressure drop
- Temperature of hands and feet goes up
Within 8-24 hours:3
- Carbon monoxide level in blood goes down
- Oxygen level in blood rises to normal
- Chance of heart attack goes down
Within 48-72 hours:4
- Damaged nerve endings start to re-grow
- Sense of smell and taste begin to improve
- Nicotine is out of the body in about 3 days
Within a Year…
2 weeks to 3 months:
- Blood flows better in the body
- Exercise is easier
- Lungs work better
- Wounds heal faster
1 to 9 months:
- Coughing and shortness of breath get better
- Sinus issues all go down
- Body has more energy
- Tiny hairs in the lungs (cilia) start to work again.
- This helps the lungs stay clean and make it easier to breathe.
- The risk of getting sick also goes down.
For the Rest of Your Life…
1 year:
- Risk of heart disease is cut by half
2-5 years:
- Risk of stroke goes down to that of a non-smoker
5 years:
- Risk of cancer of the mouth, throat, esophagus and bladder are cut in half
- Cervical cancer risk falls to that of a non-smoker
10 years:
- Lung cancer risk is cut in half
- Risk of voice box (larynx) and pancreatic cancer goes down
15 years:
- Risk of heart disease returns to that of non-smoker

- American Cancer Society. (2016). Helping a smoker quit: Do’s and Don’ts – General hints for friends and family ↩︎
- U.S. National Library of Medicine. (2018). Benefits of Quitting Tobacco. ↩︎
- American Cancer Society. (2015). Why People Start Smoking and Why It’s Hard to Stop. ↩︎
- American Cancer Society. (2016). Benefits of Quitting Smoking Over Time. ↩︎
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